Wednesday, 29 June 2016

Sorry, was too busy to post! 2 days again


So, today I woke Master, we had time for a quickie (for him). I did yoga after a 2 day break, and I do notice it! I had breakfast at leisure with mum, she was excited about meeting Ingrid. They have my credit card and Ingrid will buy something for herself if she finds something. Otherwise we will sort it later. I went to the gym. I stayed in town with my packed lunch. I went to the library to kill some time. Then I went to yoga. It was only a small group, being straight after Easter. Of course the kids are still on holiday. We had discussed cancelling, but quite a few had expressed to have the opportunity to come. I came to the center with Sabine and did my usual kitchen duty. Master wanted to go to the gym after work and we kept him a meal, as often. I am really glad we are able to do that. Of course he pays for it! We had our usual time alone right before the session, just catching up. Being together. Mum had called me twice, once to make sure I was ok to pay for their boozy lunch, and then a shop was not happy for her to have someone else's card, so I had to give consent.

She waited up for us. She wanted to explain I can expect quite a bill. Although she paid for some items as well. She was praising Ingrid. We will have to send the clothes on to her, she cannot fit it all into her suitcase.



This morning I had trouble to convince Master to get up. I think he was dreaming something. So he was a bit late. Mum slept a bit longer this morning. As I had to clean myself, I had breakfast by myself. We went to Upsalla today. I have not been there before either and Master had said it was nice there. His boarding school was near there and he spent quite some time there with his friends at the weekends, to hang out. Mum read my book while she waited for me. I really felt it this week, what an inconvenience my stoma can be. I had to keep myself from rushing. I can easily injure myself if I rush.

It was a nice sunny day and we sat in the park for quite some time with a drink and talked. We talked about her being a widow. About losing Lizzie. About me losing Robert. About me and Owe. We were still talking on the train home! But it was good. All week we had avoided it, and finally we were able. It was hard, but it was also a relief. Master was not at home when we arrived, he had gone to the gym.

We cooked dinner. After dinner Master wanted to talk to me. Mum was tired anyway and went upstairs, she really wants to finish the book. I offered she can take it, but she says she is nearly through. I awaited Master in the playroom, he had offered to clear up. He fetched me from there and took me to the bedroom, he wanted to TALK. He had met with his manager and talked about going back to work part time, along his lecturing. He wanted to know my opinion. I know that is what he wants. I will miss him, but I think it will be better. Be “normal”. He would not do any shifts, unless it is to cover during holiday times etc. Only four days a week, and less when he is lecturing. He did not mention how much he would be earning, that is none of my business. It will be enough.

Of course I gave him my approval, he has made up his mind anyway. But nice of him to consult me. We then had a bath together. I am very tired now. The bath got very physical. Nice. I enjoy being like that with him. Robert was a sex person, not into cuddling. I did that with Barbara. And sometimes Erik. Mum and Owe are talking. I am glad she seems to like him.

I am sad that she is going soon. We just got into a routine.

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